Being Fathers’ Day again, we want to uphold and honour the fathers among us. Theirs is not an easy task; many things depend on them. We include grandfathers in this today, for their role is also vital.

Some of the most mixed-up and unhappy people I’ve known in life did not have a good father. On the other hand, most of the well-balanced people I’ve known had good parents. Fathers can make or break their children, and this passes on to grandchildren.

In the world around us we see good men trying their best to be good fathers. But we also see foolish fathers, cruel fathers, selfish fathers, and absent fathers. When Paul led a prayer to the heavenly Father, he pointed out that “every family in heaven and on earth derives its name” from the Father (Ephesians 3:14-16). The implication is that earthly fathers have an important role, just as the heavenly father does. So, lets ask the question, “What kind of father does God want you to be? Here are some thoughts:

1. A father who is engaged with his family. Nothing means more to him than his children. When kids develop a close bond with their father, they grow up emotionally stable and find themselves on the road to maturity. “Bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord” (Eph.6:4).

2. A manly father. It’s important to model what a man is. Our current sexual confusion in society often comes from fathers who don’t live and act in a masculine way. A strong masculine presence in the home adds balance and direction.

3. He provides sensitive leadership. With the help of his wife, he identifies the needs and direction his home needs to take and works to provide it. In Genesis 49, Jacob called his 12 sons together to give the counsel before he died. In Acts 10:24, Cornelius “called together his relatives and close friends” to hear Peter. It’s safe to think his children were also present. Good men provide good leadership.

4. He challenges misbehavior and provides discipline. Home can be a zoo if a father doesn’t provide order. Children learn a better way to live and behave when corrected and guided by their fathers. Harried mothers appreciate his help, provided it is wise and skilful.

Many other things could be suggested: Fathers provide but don’t spoil, protect but don’t insulate, do fun things but know when to be serious. No room to develop these points in this article.

Fathers: your role is hugely important, and we honour you today!

– Tim Johnson

The writer of Proverbs said, “Watch over your heart with all diligence, for from it flow the springs of life” (4:23). If we don’t guard our hearts, evil can easily creep in. We may even feel we have developed a heart that loves God, but the ways of the world may undermine that noble desire.

A fitting illustration of this is Balaam the Diviner. If you recall, he was hired by the fearful king of Moab, Balak, to curse the Israelites as they passed by on their way to the Promised Land (Numbers 22-24). Balaam was anxious to go, but God would not allow it. Balak offered him greater fees, and Balaam pestered God to let him go with the king. God reluctantly allowed it, but only if he spoke exactly the words He would give him. But God was upset with Balaam’s duplicity and confronted him with an armed angel and the words of Balaam’s trusty donkey. The animal was wiser than the prophet!

Upon arrival, the expected curse of the prophet against Israel was turned into a blessing. While this made Balaam look faithful to God, he again pestered the Lord in hopes of fulfilling his harmful mission for the king. God would not allow it, and Balaam eventually left for home. But chapter 25 tells us that Israel fell into idolatry and immorality with the people of Moab. Revelation 2:14 reveals that this was Balaam’s fault, for he found a way to teach king Balak how the people could fall. The prophet had stepped around God’s instructions and figured out a way to satisfy the king’s desire to hurt Israel.

What was Balaam’s motivation in all of this? It was the fat paycheque that the false prophets of the ancient world often received, and accompanying honors. At first, Balaam seemed to do everything right, but his heart had a different agenda. He caused great tragedy for personal gain. Later, justice caught up to him and he was executed by Jewish soldiers (Joshua 13:22). A twisted heart ruined him.

We would do well to check our hearts regularly. We may profess to follow the Lord, but our heart may be urging us to sell out for money, honor or pleasure. Don’t let Satan twist your heart. The results can be fatal.

– Tim Johnson

A university professor recently criticized churches in Canada for not being progressive in our changing society. He claimed we are standing in the way of social progress. His remarks remind us that while we live in a country that believes in freedom of religion, we face opposition in subtle ways. This sometimes even breaks through in violence, as we’ve seen recently in several locations. Many Christians wonder if we can make any progress in today’s setting – or keep on going at all.

We need to be reminded that the first Christians had everything stacked against them. The church was born in a tough environment. Rulers like Annas the high priest and Caiaphas thought they had defeated Jesus and stamped out his disciples. Within days of Pentecost, Peter and John were jailed, interrogated, threatened, and reluctantly released (Acts 4). Then all 12 apostles were jailed, ordered not to preach, and beaten before their release (Acts 5). After Stephen was killed, a huge persecution broke out against the church, forcing Christians out of Jerusalem, chased by men like Saul.

Despite all of that, the faith of these early Christians was never stronger. Their prayers were brave. “And now, Lord, take note of their threats, and grant that Thy bond-servants may speak Thy word with all confidence” (4:29). God blessed them with strength, courage and boldness. The church went on to expand and multiply. They boomed!

No matter how subtle or how strong modern opposition may be, and no matter what Satan is up to, we can act with faith, courage and boldness.

“So, they went on their way from the presence of the Council, rejoicing that they had been considered worthy to suffer shame for His name” (5:41).

Are you up for it?

– Tim Johnson

The flyers we get in the mail these days are full of barbeques, patio chairs, lawn fertilizer, and garden equipment. Yet, the snow keeps turning up, the wind howls, and warm temperatures are elusive. A waitress who serves tables in front of large windows said, “I hate the snow and I can’t stand looking at it any longer!” In our part of the world, it’s hard to be patient in April.

Much of life demands patience. The human body takes time to heal. Loans take time to pay off. Children take time to grow. Careers take time to flourish. Good food takes time to cook. Even a cup of tea takes time to steep. It’s easy to be impatient with all of it. We’re busy people and we want everything to hurry up!

Christians are charged by God to develop patience. Jesus said we must “bear fruit with patience” (Lk.8:15). Paul said we must be “patient in tribulation” (Rom.12:12). James explained, “Be patient therefore, brethren, unto the coming of the Lord” (Jas.5:7). The tired Galatians were told, “in due time we shall reap if we do not grow weary” (Gal.6:9). The compromising Hebrews were told, “you have need of patience” (Heb.10:36). Prayers were offered up for the beleaguered Colossians, that they would be strengthened “unto all patience and longsuffering with joyfulness” (Col.1:11). In our relationships with people we are to “be patient toward all men” (1 Thess.5:14).

When we fail to be patient, the good things God is working in us are destroyed, great results are cancelled, and those who live with you are hurt.

But what great models of patience have gone before us! Noah was patient for a full year in the ark, and he saved the human race. Job was patient in his illness and losses; he was not only blessed abundantly at the end of it, he also taught all future generations about wisdom in suffering. Simeon headed for the temple every day for a long time, hoping to see the infant Messiah; that day came. Paul was patient in his hardships and inspired millions. What are you dealing with in your own life? Will you be patient?

You’ve just read 376 words. You’ve been patient.

– Tim Johnson

The disciples haggled over money that could have been spent on the poor (Matt.26:6-13). That’s symptomatic of many people today. “Look at all the waste! Think how many poor people could have benefitted from those funds!” But do they help the poor? Jesus didn’t have much, yet he helped the poor. The gospels all report the two famous occasions when He fed thousands.

It makes no difference if a country is wealthy, the poor are always present. The Babylonians were one of the wealthiest nations on earth, yet Daniel scolded Nebuchadnezzar for his lack of mercy to the poor (Daniel 4:27). We live in a wealthy country too, but the poor are all around us. Well-meaning governments do what they can to help, but there’s never enough to expel poverty.

We often think the poor suffer because of a lack of ambition, foresight, poor choices – and this is sometimes true. But poverty arises out of many circumstances. Housing prices are so high in some of our cities that many work in the daytime and sleep in their cars at night. I went to elementary school with kids who lived in tiny shacks and brought little food for lunch; their parents struggled to make ends meet. Sometimes a poor economy throws people out on the street. Abuse, violence and mental health problems all spawn poverty.

Let’s not decide that society’s social programs will do. Too many people suffer hunger pains while waiting for organizations to make up their minds. How many “fall through the cracks?” Jesus said, “Be merciful, just as your Father is merciful” (Luke 6:36). Paul said, “While we have opportunity, let us do good to all men, and especially to those who are of the household of faith” (Gal.6:10). God-fearing Cornelius “gave many alms to the Jewish people” (Acts 10:2).

Helping the poor demands wisdom and skill. There are times when giving creates problems. It must be done carefully. Sometimes we suffer discouragement by the behaviour of people. Yet, Paul pointed out, “Let us not lose heart in doing good, for in due time we shall reap if we do not grow weary” (Gal.6:9).

Life is not just accumulating as much wealth as possible for our own use. It’s also what we do with it for others.

– Tim Johnson