Giving Our Lives

August 24, 2025

During Jesus last long discussion with his apostles in John 13-17 He explained to them that he wanted to have the same kind of love for each other that He had for them. He tells them in John 15:13 what this means. Saying greater love has no one than this, that someone lay down his life for his friends”. Jesus said this knowing that within hours he would be arrested, tried, and then crucified for His friends. However this obvious meaning is not all that should be made of this saying. Jesus lived not just those last hours but his whole life for his friends.


This is what Christians are called to do. It has been said that when Jesus calls someone he calls them to come and die. It is very seldom that this is a one-time act. Instead the Christian must chose daily to give up his or her life for Christ and for others as He did.
Giving up one
s life can and sometimes does mean taking a bullet or falling on a grenade in a selfless one time act.

 

Most often though giving up ones life is about placing the needs and priorities of others before your own. This is exemplified in the spouse who gives up everything to care for their ailing partner. Or the parents of a disabled child who face the rest of their lives knowing that the needs of that child will forever be first. I know of couples now where one partner has Alzheimers and must be cared for perpetually. It is these people who set a wonderful example for the rest of us and who exemplify Christ like living.


Let
s remember then that we have been called to follow Jesus in giving up our lives to God, and in that to those around us Phil 2:3-5. I hope that this has been as encouraging a thought to all of you as it has been for me.

~ Kevin Cleary

The Real Reason

August 17, 2025

I remember a few years ago research was released on chemicals called polycyclic aromatic hydrocarbons. These are chemicals created when portions of red meat like fat and creatine are exposed to high heat. In other words when you cook steak or other red meat on a grill, you might be at increased risk for cancer. When people heard this they were somewhat troubled because who doesn’t love a BBQ? Ultimately though nothing happened for most people the flavour of red meat cooked over fire was worth the risk. They were not willing to give it up even if they knew it was safer. 

Similarly during covid it was widely known that lower body weight and healthier eating vastly reduced the risk posed by the virus. Again very few people seriously endeavoured to cut their weight or made serious changes to their eating or overall physical health. 

These two examples are but two of many which could be given to illustrate the trade off and risk assessment that we all make in our lives. We all engage in some activity that involves risk and we have different levels of comfort with how much risk we are willing to take. 

This brings us to the point I want to make which is a little more serious. You may recall a passage of scripture in Genesis three where Adam and Eve have eaten the fruit from the tree of the knowledge of good and evil. They then hear God walking in the garden and instead of going to spend time with him which seemingly was their practice they hide. When God calls they give up hiding and go face the music. 

There are many people living in sin away from God today. They like Adam and Eve hear God calling in many ways. Maybe even through interacting with Christians who are seeking to share the good news with them. However instead of responding to God’s call they assess their options. They know there are things they like that they would need to give up most especially their mistaken notion that they are in charge of their lives. Rather than surrender they keep hiding from God and will even become frustrated angry or withdrawn if anyone or anything risks exposing them.

We must keep in mind that as we reach out to people some of those people are still in hiding. These are lost but don’t want to be found. We don’t stop trying but we do understand that when we don’t get a good reaction even when truth is lovingly shared there is often a reason that has nothing to do with us.

Kevin Cleary

After The Prodigal Returned

August 3, 2025

In Luke chapter fifteen Jesus teaches about the nature of God, the nature of man and the nature of rebellion. Jesus tells us about a man who had two sons, the younger of the two asks for his inheritance early and then uses the money to leave his fathers house and go out on his own to a far country. While there he squandered his inheritance with reckless living. Eventually that country experienced a famine and the man had to get a job working for one of the people there who gave him a job feeding his pigs. He was so hungry that he longed to eat the food the pigs were given. While there he came to his senses and thought to himself how many of my fathers servants have more than enough to eat? I will return to my father and admit I was wrong to leave and ask if I can be just one of his hired servants. When the man returned his father saw if far off and in compassion ran to him hugged him and kissed him. The son admitted that he had wronged his father and sinned against heaven. He said “I am no longer worthy to be called your son.” His father called his servants and had them bring a new robe and a ring and shoes and to kill a fattened calf for a celebration. “This my son was dead and is alive again; he was lost and is found!”

The sons rebellion was a wicked betrayal but that did not stop his father from loving him. Similarly our sin is a betrayal as we use the very freedom and power God had given us to turn away from him. God doesn’t stop loving us, instead He like the father in the parable is waiting in hopes that we and all men would realize our mistake and return. God doesn’t force us into a relationship or build fences to keep us from leaving the house. Rather he continually shows us his love and grace in hopes that we will learn that life apart from him is empty and return. 

Before we leave this story we need to consider one further point. What do you suppose happened to the son who returned a week later or maybe a month later? We would like to think that his lesson was learned and that he never again challenged his father or desired to go to a faraway land and waste his resources. Reality however teaches us that is not the way of man. When the son was ready to take on some of the household finances do you think he said, well I know dad would do it this way but I think this risky investment could pay off bigger? Do you think when it was time to marry he thought I know dad has arranged for a good wife from a good family but there is this girl at the market who is always showing off her wears. The fact is submission is hard; we are extremely good at convincing ourselves that we know better than God and will just do this one thing our way. 

Let’s take some time to consider why submission is hard, what methods we use to justify ourselves, and what areas of life we especially struggle to submit to God.

~ Kevin Cleary

What was Adam Thinking After?

July 27, 2025

The Lotto 649 ad encourages you to just imagine. Imagine if you were fortunate enough to live in your dream house. To have everything you need. Your environment was comfortable and beautiful. The temperature was always right. You didn’t lack for anything you had plenty of good food to eat and enjoy with your perfect partner. What more could you possible want? I don’t know what your life situation is now but you probably have moments where you stop and think of how things could be better. This is why the lotto ads are so powerful because no matter how good we might have it the world is not a perfect place. It’s important to point out that lots of money won’t suddenly make the world perfect, even if it could solve some of the problems you or I are dealing with. 

Now imagine instead of thinking ahead to a time when things might get better you could think back to a time when they were perfect. That doesn’t sound sensible to many but that’s exactly the situation Adam and Eve found themselves in. They could remember when the world was perfect. When there was meaningful but not onerous work, when nothing hurt you and nothing hurt. I wonder if Adam in his eight hundred and fiftieth year as he bent low over some weeds to pull them out of his plot of ground thought back to when he lived in a perfect garden where no weeds grew and where his back didn’t fatigue from pulling them. If he stood up sometimes and remembered when joints didn’t ache. If he felt the sun hot on his sweaty face and remembered when it didn’t burn and when none of the plants had thorns and nothing was trying to kill you and your loved ones. Perhaps to Adam it was like the Lotto ad “just imagine” but instead “just remember.” We don’t know how many children Eve may have had but I can imagine her wanting what was best for them just as all mothers do. Then thinking what it might have been like raising children in a perfect place where she didn’t have to always be concerned about what kind of life they would have because she knew it would be wonderful. Did the pain of each new birth remind her of the pain those children would experience in the world? How many times did she think back and ask why did I listen to that wicked snake? How did I fall for it, why did I think there could possibly have been more or better than the beauty and joy we had? 

Such is the situation we all put ourselves in when we fail to trust God. God want’s our best and reveals his truth to that end. When we don’t believe him and obey him in trust we are doing the very thing Adam and Eve did. How sad it would be for us to one day think why didn’t I trust God?

Kevin Cleary

Dover Beach Part 2

July 20, 2025

Last week I shared a poem. The was written by Matthew Arnold an English poet who died in 1888. Arnold describes that waning faith of the English people as a tide which is on it’s way out and in fact isn’t even visible just the sound of it’s retreating roar is left.

The Sea of Faith

Was once, too, at the full, and round earth’s shore

Lay like the folds of a bright girdle furled.

But now I only hear

Its melancholy, long, withdrawing roar,

This sentiment is not unknown to us today. Many have commented on the seemingly ongoing retreat of faith as a cultural influence in the west. Recently Jay Manimtim visited with us and shared that the number of Canadians who report no religion grows year after year. 

This is a concern for many reasons, what hope is there for children who grow up without a knowledge of God? What hope is there for a society that is not restrained by the knowledge of a moral framework to which we are all accountable? As a practical matter what will the world look like if the influence of Christian faith continues to retreat? What kind of society will our children or their children inhabit?

These thoughts are deeply troubling and should motivate us to share the truths of God far and wide. 

We must also understand that God can still work and all hope is never lost. I heard about the poem above in a book called “The Surprising Rebirth of Belief in God” by Justin Brierley. In the book Brierley notes the diminishing influence of “New Atheism” and the realization that society can’t enjoy the fruits of Christian morality without the historical and spiritual roots. 

People with large platforms and influential voices are expressing some appreciation for Christianity, even allowing apologists to defend God and the Bible in some cases. Wes Huff and Steven Meyer have recently been invited on many popular well viewed media outlets. 

While it’s hard to predict the outcome of these things, this change of tone may represent a turning tide. 

We should think seriously about how we can personally and congregationally use this as an opportunity to share the gospel.

~ Kevin Cleary